Loser Love Diaries 7

I asked a friend of mine yesterday, "Is it even worth getting a girlfriend?"

I came upon the idea after watching the following video:



It seems like an awful lot of work and time for a person who can suck up your time, funds and perhaps in some ways freedom.

I don't like lying. Ever. So artificially appearing busy when I am in fact not seems to me inauthentic and if a girl really wants me, she should be willing to tolerate my quirks (constant honesty). I'd say honesty and being yourself is the best defense to any of the tips suggested by the above video. If said girl can't put up with my personality, then so be it, better she finds out early on than when it's too late and we're stuck with two kids.

Of course, I have no success by which I can speak on behalf of, but my gut tells me to be honest 100 percent of the time. Perhaps when I (and in turn, the girls I want to date) get older, the more attractive they will find honesty.

I'm certainly very picky when it comes to what I find attractive, but at least I know what I want. And for better or for worse, I'm certainly not the type to change my personality for anyone. Not even for the smart-funny-humble-blonde-German-speaking-athletic-girl of my dreams.

Loser Love Diaries 6

Types of girls to avoid:

- single girls who have dogs, because when they have dogs, they are seeking to replace their loneliness with a dog, which never ends well and they can often be, well, crazy
- girls who take too long getting ready
- girls who barely let you speak because they're taking up all the air trying to explain how every last second of her miserable life is so immensely more strenuous than yours will ever likely be
- excessively superficial girls
- girls who have no hobbies apart from shopping, getting dressed, showering, applying makeup, taking selfies or eating or girls who serve no purpose apart from standing there and looking pretty.
- girls who expect normalcy and won't let you be yourself for every moment when you stray from such nonsense as "normalcy"
- girls with egos
- hipster girls (same thing as having a massive ego, essentially)
- girls who only initially talk to you because they find you attractive (that's when you know you have a real winner on your hands and your candle-lit dinner conversations are going to be profound and your relationship will be more than a lust-driven superficial relationship)

You know who you are.